Okay - you can say it.... "I told you so"
DH is now happily living with BM2 and SD2. Yep, they are co-habitating as "husband and wife" and playing happy families.
We got back together and it lasted a little over 6 weeks. I unfortunately found out that whilst we were discussing a reconciliation and attending marriage counselling whilst living apart, he was still knobbing BM2. In fact he was knobbing her right up until the day before he moved back. I forgave him.
Three weeks later he got shit faced drunk and spent the night with her. I forgave him.
Another three weeks went by and he sent me a text asking for a divorce. He spent that night with her too.
I was so devastated and so angry, I just could not take any more. So, the following day, I packed up his stuff (all his clothing and toiletries) and dropped three suitcases and 5 boxes of his stuff at BM2's office.
Her boss came down and said that I was not allowed to leave the stuff there, so in my absolute rage, I said, "what you're gonna do? Fire me? Your employee is fucking MY husband, so if she wants him she can have him and all his crap. Best you tell her to get her arse over here and sort this shit out!" And I left.
Apparently the slut did not go back to the office and she sent DH to her office to go and collect his stuff.
Those two are such cowards and deserve each other.
Soooooo...... I'm waiting for the final draft of the divorce summons so DH can be served. Courts close soon so it will only happen next year.