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5 days on, 5 days off...BS!

Rose.Colored.Glasses's picture

BM wanted to try doing 5 days off, 5 days on like her boyfriend does. It's been two days and SD is already back. FML.

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MarriedaBallessWonder's picture

We did this for years and our horsefaced BM would always find reasons why she couldn't take them on her 5 days. So we would be stuck with them for weeks at a time while she enjoyed the single life. She also demanded her entire CS every month.

It sucks ass.

Newstep's picture

This was SO's schedule in the beginning. Which translated to BM dropping of SD whenever she felt like it. When I moved in she stopped but SD would call him at least 3 days of her week at her moms to come home. Or he would pick her up,in the morning to come home before school to make her breakfast Crazy crap like that SD was about 9 years old and calling all the shots. I finally got SO to see that sticking to a schedule was the best thing for everyone. Even though BM and SD hated not running him around all the time he finally stuck to the schedule.

Rose.Colored.Glasses's picture

If FDH doesn't take her, BM would just find somewhere else to dump her and he hates the thought of some stranger constantly raising his child.