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Rhinodad's picture

After a week of SD7 being here, we are finally free!

Highlights of the week... two HUGE meltdowns after dinner about having to do her homework. One started with me, ended with DW. The other was done with DW the entire time. I haven't seen her like that in a long time - she didn't want to do the work to the point where she was saying "my ears hurt" or "I'm still hungry.." Really any excuse she could fine. But DW wasn't having it, that type of behavior might fly at her BD's house, but not ours. Scream and crying, foaming at the mouth... great behavior for a 7 year old.

Then there was the NEAR CONSTANT COMPLAINING. Nothing is ever good for this child. If anyone in the house does something that doesn't revolve around her, she complains for an hour straight. We have to go grocery shopping? Bitch and moan for an hour, then bitch and moan at the store, run into things on the shelf, keeping picking things up after repeatedly being told not to...

Then there is the getting her brother in trouble. BS3 hits, we know this and we are trying to stop it. Of course SD7 eggs him on... rolls up in a ball chanting "you can't hit me" or "don't hit me" over and over again. Of course a 3 year old is going to hit when someone does that. Then she gets hit and goes running to Mommy. DW ALWAYS takes her side... never is there any punishment doled out to SD7 for instigating.

Then there was the pestering about the Bday party she wasn't allowed to go to because of her poor behavior. Nearly constant "Did I earn the party back?" OR "Can I go to the party now?" No, your behavior was so piss poor that you do not get a treat... of course then she is allowed to go play in the pool by DW, so essentially she doesn't get punished. This is INFURIATING!

Well, now that I have that off my chest, at least she is gone now.

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tabby yabba do's picture

LOL

DaizyDuke's picture

HAHA!

luchay's picture

OP - you are NOT a terrible person.

Please do not take to heart anything the previous poster said.

Rhinodad's picture

Don't worry, I don't take internet comments to heart. Probably just a troll - don't feed 'em.

Rhinodad's picture

FWIW, that is what I use this site for, to bitch about SD, because no amount of 'trying to work it out' over the past three years has helped. Isn't it better that I anonymously vent on a website, rather than ACTUALLY taking it out on her? It certainly is cheaper than a therapist!

It's always easier to criticize other people's choices, especially when you haven't walked a mile in their shoes.

Brapamival's picture

Every post he has posted over the last 2 years is just bitching about this poor girl who suffers everyday she is with him knowing he doesn't want her and hates her. She was right, she only has 1 daddy and that's the 1 that actually takes the time and wants her in his life!

Brapamival's picture

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Brapamival's picture

Yea and I would never cry and talk shit about ANY of my kids, and talk about how happy I was they were gone! Cherish every moment you have with them, you never know when it will be your last. Their is a difference between venting and being hateful.

DaizyDuke's picture

I'm wondering why the hell you are even on a website for venting stepparents, if you are so perfect? I think you should hop back on your unicorn and head on over to another website where people might actual care about how wonderful you think you are...