Son being bullied due to SD
I have been a SM for 6 years and am having a problem with my SD who is 15. SD has quite simply never taken to me or my 2 bios. Her brother likes me, my bios and my and my DHs baby together, but SD has virtually ignored us (including my and DHs baby boy, her half brother) for 6 entire years (50/50 custody). But that's a topic for another day.
The reason I finally created an account here after years of lurking is because of that happened last month. SD and BS go to the same HS. BS is a freshman and having trouble adjusting. He was being bullied by some upperclassmen and SD walked by, and he called out for her to help him. One of her friends (she is sort of a floater in a popular clique) said, "SD, do you know this little *explative*?" She responded "His mother spreads her legs for my dad, otherwise not my problem". And then she just walked away and continued her conversation leaving my son in the hands of these bullies.
I took DHs last name but my bios have their Biodads last name, which the bullies twisted and now call him "Slutson". He comes home every day in tears. My DD is going to that HS next year and I'm terrified she's going to get the Slutson nickname as well or some variation.
DH and I confronted SD. Her only response was that she told the truth, that I do spread my legs for DH and that is the reason why she knows BS14 and that she has no obligation to help BS. "Not my family, not my problem." I was speechless, as was DH.
I don't know how to handle this situation. I thought the nickname would blow over but it's been more than a month and no sign of losing steam. It has just made him a bigger target. He just returned from Thanksgiving with his biodad and he asked if he could go move in permanently with him 2000 miles away. I shot down that request immediately but my ex and his wife are ok with it. I just don't know what to do. The school is not helping at all (one of his teachers implied he should just toughen up). SD has no interest in helping. She caused this and could fix this easily but there is nothing we can do to punish her. Ugh, just needed to vent and this is the only place where I can do that.