i feel terrible
I don't really like my SS9 right now. Lately everything he does annoys me.
Yesterday we were at my mom's and he went outside to draw with chalk on the driveway with DD3. My mom and I watched from inside and he was yelling at DD and then got mad at her and took a swing at her as she ran from him. He didn't connect thankfully. He even stomped his feet like a two year old. Then he got mad and challenged my mom for giving DD a glass of water. He told my mom she didn't need it and argued with her about it. This is not the first time he has argued with my mom. He does it with me as well.
Tonight he said some cryptic stuff to his BM and I asked him what was he looking forward to and he says nothing. Then he tells me his mom is a great mom. His dad used to say that I was a great mom all the time when we were just dating and BM had a fit. This from the woman that abandoned her 3 yr old and never picks him up for her custody week and doesn't always show up for her weekends. Yeah ok whatever.
I'm just really annoyed by him and I don't know why. He has taught my DD that hitting is ok and we have caught him lying and saying she was hitting him when she never touched him. It's just annoying and I don't know what to do. DD loves to play with him even though he lies about her and gets her in trouble with his lies.
I don't know what to do and I'm stuck taking care of him all summer. I really wish he would go away and I don't want to feel this way. Please help...