I am surrounded by idiots.
Sorry but I need to vent and see what others think.
I have a friend who is always sick or in pain. Her daughter was born three months before my daughter and my daughter was a month early, just to give you some back ground. My daughter is a year behind school wise because of the birthday cut-off.
My friend had a terrible pregnancy, she was always uncomfortable and always had to be taking it easy. Ok great. I think she was full of shit now but at the time I bought it. I had a high risk pregnancy was on and off bed rest all the time and still worked two jobs and busted my butt since I was going to be a single mom doing this. She complained the whole pregnancy about how she had PCOS and might lose her baby because of it and she bitched her husband never wanted to do anything with her for the baby. Ummm he did a lot. She bitched because her dad wouldn't buy the crib she wanted. She bitched because she didn't get this or that. Her in-laws hosted her baby shower and the people there were all MIL's friends except me. She bitched.
Baby comes and she bitches that she is sore from delivery. She didn't recover from a normal vaginal delivery with an epidural for a year. Oh and she felt every contraction and was in immense pain despite the epi.
Then she bitched all the time that her husband wouldn't help with the baby. How awful it was and it was worse than being a single mom. OMG!
Every time I log on to FB she is whining about her being sick and the kid is having major health issues. My DD was born early and had a lot of digestive problems and had to have a barium swallow and a couple other invasive procedures at different times to check for birth defects. DD is pretty damn healthy now but very tiny. Friends DD? Oh friend was told to quit feeding her all the time as the child was getting obese. This is from the third week on. Every time the kid went to sleep it was with a bottle. She woke up, they stuffed a bottle in her mouth. She cried? They stuffed a bottle in her mouth. Now my friend is obese and blames it on PCOS. Hmmm....
They seem to be in a competition with my DD and myself. They brag about their DD doing hours of homework in Pre-K and how she made a diorama among other projects. We had to take their daughter to Wal-mart because she had money to go to the flea market but it rained and we were not going for obvious reasons. While we are at the checkout they tell me she knows how to handle money so it comes time to pay and they hand her the money and she hands it to the cashier. She doesn't count it or know what each bill is or how much to give (mom and dad gave her the right amount) and she doesn't know if she got the right change. Ummm that is not knowing how to pay or handle money. UGH!
They have this kid on steroids at least twice a month and a nebulizer every day because even though she doesn't have any wheezing or rattling she is an asthmatic. Well what makes you think she has asthma? She coughs. Oh and she has allergies. They own a cat and lived with their inlaws who have a dog. WTF?
Today I log on and the friend is thanking all her church friends for all the prayers and help while she had her four hour surgery. She had a D&C, a 20 minute procedure and she claims it took four hours. I miscarried and had one and I was up and walking right after. WTF is this four shit? Also to hear her and her husband they are acting like she was hospitalized and is bedridden. They are thanking people for the lasagna and casseroles. WTF? She had a D&C.
Thanks for reading, I am just annoyed today and now I find out the people that used to own my house are driving by frequently and checking it out. They told the neighbor they want it back and are going to sue to get it back. So yeah I am a little annoyed. They were foreclosed on over a year ago and their time ran out months ago but they are dumb enough to think that doesn't matter. They know the house was fixed up and taken care of so of course they want it back. The creepy factor is them driving by all the time. They know we have dogs and they know about the new one I just adopted. I almost want them to stick their hand over the fence and have her bite the thing off.