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Today is D Day

Razamond's picture

A lot is going down today and forgive me but I need to get it out. After 3 straight weeks of SD (hateful, nasty) BM finally took her court ordered week of custody last week. That's over today - this is H's week. So I am holding my breath waiting to see how SD acts this evening. Either BM has filled her with ammunition to be even more nasty and hateful or, like H hopes for, SD has realized over the past week how good H and I are to her. What i don't understand is why over the summer when BM was homeless and H had full custody (not on paper) SD was a different person. Ever since BM got her every other week back SD has been a nasty, hateful biotch. I know she has been poisoned by BM, but it is H's fault for allowing her to treat me so badly - kicker is week before last (before she went back to BM) she was being nasty to H too (ha, ha). He got so upset, 'why is she being so hateful and ungrateful' - duh, cause YOU let her. I have gotten lapse for the past week so now here it is I have to got thru the house, find anything of value i have left out and go lock it up in my room. Ridiculous! I feel like I am baby proofing the house (from a 13 year old) in fact I am burglar proofing the house - from a burglar that LIVES with me - disgusting. SD's last night here she takes a shower and then I find my son's toothbrush in the floor. My son did not touch it - I know this sounds petty but she threaten to pee on his toothbrush a long time ago and I just can't trust it - it was wet so she clearly did something with it (not pee but something). Needless to say I was upset and H's response was my son should not leave his toothbrush in the bathroom - then where the hell should he leave it! H suggested i lock it up with my bathroom stuff - I can't believe H accepts the fact that I have to lock up my things so SD doesn't steal/destroy and now he thinks my BS should do the same?!?!
On top of this H goes to court today to hear the contempt charge against BM for failure to pay her portion of skids healthcare and childcare and the crazy motion BM put in asking for $100 for gas from H for each week she has custody (no, really : O )
So this evening will be interesting. You know what they say, pray for the best, expect the worse and prepare for the unexpected.

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sam's picture

That is so disrespectful i can't believe that your dh didn't say anything to her.If my sd peed on my bs toothbrush i would be disgusted and pissed.Swoosh your husbands toothbrush in the toilet and see if he likes it!!You have a right to tell her to act her age and don't ever do it again.I can let it slide when it comes to myself but i will stick up for my bs.That to me would have sent me over the edge.

sam's picture

That is so disrespectful i can't believe that your dh didn't say anything to her.If my sd peed on my bs toothbrush i would be disgusted and pissed.Swoosh your husbands toothbrush in the toilet and see if he likes it!!You have a right to tell her to act her age and don't ever do it again.I can let it slide when it comes to myself but i will stick up for my bs.That to me would have sent me over the edge.

Tara12's picture

Not leave your toothbrush in the bathroom? What should your son carry everything around with him in a plastic container so he can go to the bathroom with it each time. Your hubby needs a jolt with a cattle prod and start disciplining his kid. If she is 13 now she is only going to get worse. OMG a shudder just went through my body thinking about it!

now4teens's picture

So now your son needs to lock up his toothbrush so SD can't sabotage it by doing God-knows-what to it??

She threatened to pee on it. Nice. And your DH knows this? And he's ok with the fact that she made this ugly, disgusting threat? Does he know your son could get hepatitis or some other disease from doing something like this???? And this is ACCEPTABLE behavior?

I just don't know what else to say to this other than I'm thoroughly upset for you and your BS.

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