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Submitted by rainbow bright83 on Tue, 01/26/2016 - 10:57am

Today is the day that DHS will be coming to my home and conducting an interview from me and my children.....

I wish that someone would have told me how evil and vile step children can be. I would have pepper sprayed my hubby and ran away before our first date! Dont get me wrong, I love my DH. But there are times that I just look at him and think God you're stupid. And those times are mostly when he is trying to rationalize the skids behavior.

My poor kids have been stressed out because of the lies this kid has spewed. It is so hard to explain to them why someone would come up with lies just for attention. I am beyond angry. I went through this crap with the oldest skid. I feel like this is a terrible sequel.

I am not a happy camper right now.....

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Submitted by rainbow bright83 on Tue, 01/26/2016 - 11:12am

The skid does not live with us and does not come to my house. When she "comes over" she stays at my in-laws house and that is where my dh visits her. Its been this way for years.

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Submitted by robin333 on Tue, 01/26/2016 - 11:35am

I'll never understand false accusations that can have such tragic consequences. Despicable. I am sorry you are going through this. No advice, but sending lots of hugs.

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Submitted by Wildflower on Tue, 01/26/2016 - 11:48am

I'm sort of going through this myself, so I feel your pain. I wish I knew how to help, but sadly I don't even know how to fix my own situation. Hugs to you.

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Submitted by Teas83 on Tue, 01/26/2016 - 1:23pm

I dealt with a CPS investigation about 3 years ago. Shortly after SD told BM that I was pregnant with my DD(now 2), BM called CPS with abuse allegations. The case worker pulled SD out of school to ask her about it - she was only 4 at the time (way to go, BM). I then met with the case worker myself.

Luckily, it was discovered that BM had taken an accidental situation from about 6 months prior and turned it into me intentionally hurting SD. I was told BM would be flagged in the system.

My DH understand that if BM pulls a stunt like this again, SD will not be welcome in our house. I have my DD2 and another baby on the way. I don't need CPS investigating me on their behalf.

I hope that everything goes well for you. I'm sure the truth will come out - it usually does in these situations.