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Rags's picture

And everyone for the most part is playing nice.

Those of you who are not know who you are!

Okay here is my abreviated opinion on todays hot topics.

1. IF there is a CS order in place then BOTH BioParents should have to work FULL TIME.

2. Life goes on even when the Skids are not in your home. Go on vacation when you want to and whether they are there or not. If the other parent refuses to allow the Skids to go on vacation with your family that is on the other BioParent not you or your spouse. Have fun on vacation.

3. If the blended family opposition BioParent can't play nice then have separate celebrations in each family for Skid milestones.

4. PAS is not exclusive to CPs. NCPs can be carriers also.

Did I forget any hot topics?

Best regards.

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Colorado Girl's picture

I like #2.

Life does go on and kids shouldn't be lead to be so darned entititled.

stepmasochist's picture

#1 is my fave. I don't think the term "single stay at home mom" should even exist.

There was recently an engagement announcement in our paper that said the bride-to-be was a SAHM. I remember going "ugh" when I read that. I also pointed out to all my co-workers so they could go "ugh" too — which they did.

Storm76's picture

Great post, though I'd prefer to see #1 as:

The default custody arrangement is 50/50 with no child support being paid by either side

purpledaisies's picture

I love these and I agree with storm it should be 50/50 to start with and no CS! This is from a biomom that never got CS but he was ordered too.

I do like 1 and 2 very much.

Rags's picture

Sorry to repost this one. I was verifying how to edit a blog after posting and accidently reposted.

But ..... thanks for the feedback.