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The final vistitation showdown with the SpermClan

Rags's picture

SpermGrandMa called two days ago to set up the final visitation before SS ages out from under the Judgment. She was told to buy a one way ticket. The travel date was agreed at June 30 to begin the 5wk summer visitation.

Tonight we get a toothless mumbling message on our answering machine from the SpermGrandHag about it being too expensive to fly him before July 4th (this is so they get his 18th B-day which my wife gets this year) and he is going to stay 7wks.

WTF?????? The cost difference between June 30 and July 4 is $25.00. The most it will cost is $250.

The judgement is clear. Give us 60day written notice prior to any visitation they intend to exercise. Summer visitation is 5 wks. Any visitation SpermDad does not exercise is gone and can not be added to future visitations.

My wife calls to get clarification on the toothless drooling message and WWIII breaks out. My wife had a blast. She was arguing just to argue and putting SpermGrandHag through the whole baring of her stupid ass process.

My wife told her that 5wks is 5wks and that the start date was agreed too on Wed. SpermGrandMa goes in to her whining litany of how they have been wronged for 18yrs and have missed a bunch of visitation (because they chose not to take it due to inability to pay for their half of the travel costs), been victimized by my wife (who can actually read and understand the judgement and complies to the letter), they should get 7wks because they missed some time over the past two years, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

She even went in to some cryptic rant about how my wife is always mad and too hard on the kid and if she does not go easy on him he will make decisions that my wife won't like. She would not clarify and went in to "you will find out" repeatedly.

My wife replied "who are you to give parenting advice. If you had raised your son to be a man rather than a serial statutory rapist who abandoned his three youngest children on your door step and has to have you pay his rent and his CS you might have room for an opinion. But ... your performance as a parent proves you just need to shut up"

My wife proceeded to spin up the ingnorant cow for a couple of hours before finishing the final conversation we will ever have with the Toothless SpermClan with ..............

"If you were literate and could actually read the judgement you would know that DickHead has to give me 60day written notice prior to any visitation. The start date you want (July 4) is inside of 60days. You are in violation of the judgement and have forfeit you summer visitation. Feel free to get a lawyer if you want to continue this discussion" CLICK!!!!!!!

My wife had a grin on her face the whole time.

Once again, DickHead is no where to be found to deal with his visitation with his oldest child. The F-in toothless morons did not even make the effort to come to the kids graduation. Once again they have shown that when it counts, they don't give a shit about my son (SS).

Now for MY primary character flaw.

I F-IN HATE THESE PEOPLE. I HAVE NO USE FOR ANY OF THEM. I LOOK FORWARD TO NEVER AGAIN HAVING TO HOLD MY WIFE WHILE SHE CRIES AFTER SPEAKING WITH THEM. WHEN THAT IGNORANT BITCH (SpermGrandMa) DIES I WILL FLY ACROSS THE COUNTRY TO ENTHUSIASTICALLY PISS ON HER GRAVE! HELL, WHEN ANY OF THE TOOTHLESS SPERMIDIOTS DIE I WILL PISS ON THEIR GRAVES.

But, I am as happy as I can be because they are now out of our lives. Hopefully my son will soon come to the conclusion that they are not worth any more of his time. But, that is probably too much to ask of the kid and I would never hurt him by asking for him to write them off.

Okay, I feel better now.

Best regards,

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Rags's picture

Nope, I am not bitter at all. What would possibly give you that impression? Wink

I am actually a bit depressed that my opportunities to bare their ignorant asses publicly, frequently and as embarrassingly as possible are rapidly coming to an end. }:)

I am sure it will be an adjustment not having to deal with them again. But that is one change I am happy to deal with.

But, I know I will never really be rid of them. My son (SS) will have to deal with the legacy of the polluted end of his gene pool and his mom and I will be there to support him in any way that we can for as long as we can.

Cruelly my fate will be to have to deal with their shit for the rest of my life. I will willingly do it to minimize the consequences they will invariably dump on my kid.

Best regards,

Shaman29's picture

I hear you Rags. We live in your favorite state, so I understand exactly how you feel about the SpermClan. When I read about your run-ins with them I see many similarities in the actions and stupidity of SpermClan and Uberskank.

My mantra right now is 4 more year, 4 more years. In exactly 4 years we will be done dealing with DH's ex. If DH's kid goes to college he will start paying CS directly to her but all the BS we go through EOW, Holiday's and summer with Uberskank will be over. I know there are going to be events his kid's life that cause Uberskank to open her big mouth and say something stupid, but our day to days will no longer be affected.

Tell you what.....if you find yourselves out this way I'd be happy to buy a fellow STer a beer! Biggrin

Rags's picture

During last nights Wife/SpermGrandMa blow out the toothless SpermGrandHag actually told my wife that we have call them to tell them where SS is going to college.

Ummmmm not really. The packet that we got from the OR CSE office clearly stated that all that was required was a notification letter indicating that the kid intended to attend college and the name of the college and informing the CSE office that BioDad was on the authorization list to receive grades and enrollment status. We won't put him the grade mailing list. If he wants the infor he can drag his lazy ass to the phone and call. SpermGrandHag is not going any authorization list for anything. BioDad needs to be cc'd when the letter of intent goes to the CSE office. Thats it.

We don't have to talk to them at all ever about anything after the kids B-day.

Our mantra is 76 more days, 76 more days, 76 more days. Smile

Those four years in your mantra go fast.

Best regards,