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Rae's picture

I'm finally getting the hang of this!

I wrote in my previous post about the ex calling my cell phone to harrass me...well she has tried all day to reach my SO without success...he's not talking to her. He's got enough stress from his job right now, and just can't deal with her. So yet again, she calls me.

As I said before, only my so and his ex-wife call me on this phone...so I knew it was her...it always comes through as "Private Number."

So this time instead of letting it go to voice mail, I answered it in a very enthusiastic voice...

I said, "B*****, How may I help you!" She hung up immediately! Yay. Maybe she'll finally quit calling me. Keeping fingers crossed.

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luvdagirl's picture

congrats! well now that BM knows that you could care less what she thinks of you she'll atleast need to regroup and maybe it will give you guys a break.

Anne 8102's picture

You know what I would do? If you can do call forwarding on that phone, I'd send her calls to somewhere crazy, like a pay phone somewhere. Maybe she'll get lucky and find someone who actually wants to talk to her.

~ Anne ~

"Love, having no geography, knows no boundaries."
(Truman Capote)

Mocha2001's picture

You could answer the phone and say something really funny, you know like Bart Simpson would do when he calls the bars.

~ Katrina

Rae's picture

They are all terrific (from this post and the other related one)...wish I could just forward her calls like Anne says...or even block them, but she types in the code to make it come through as "private number" when she calls, so I cannot do anything with it. I was prepared for her calling me again last night since SO still hasn't talked to her, but maybe my answering the phone instead of letting it go to voice mail where she can rant, will cure her. She didn't call...yippee. I used to let it upset me so much, and I have a log of all the calls she has made and exactly what she said, but I think I'm finally over it, except to grin a little, and feel good that it's just not getting to me, except as a minor annoyance that I'd rather not have.

JUST ME IN NJ's picture

It seems as if you have handled yourself as a mature, respectful person... which I commend, considering how easy it is to stoop to the ex's levels.... but always remain the "better person". It is obvious she is miserable & you know what they say about misery, so don't keep her company w/ any. Don't let her get you upset because then she "won". The best revenge is living happy. (Though I really like the idea of forwarding her calls to somehwere far way so she can make "friends" & leave you alone.) Good luck!!!

What doesn't kill you, will make you stronger!

Mom on the Edge's picture

or two of another psycho BM that she would have lots in common with! They could swap stories. Maybe they could create their own "Psycho Bitch" website or hotline. That should keep them busy enough to leave us alone.

Kudos to you! I would have (and most always do) let it go to voicemail. Just the sound of her voice is enough to send me over the edge!