Sorry it's been a while...
I'm sorry it's been a while since I've been over here. I've been really busy and now I feel bad because I don't want anyone here to think I just post and run! I guess I got a little confortable in my surroundings and now I feel like it's all going down hill again.
We got papers today from biomom. Papers she had no right to file and I feel like I can't breathe and my world is spinning. Hard as I try, I am having a hard time not letting her get to me. I don't understand why she can't just leave us alone. It's like everytime she's going through financial problems, it's suddenly up to us to fix them. She tries to make us pay for the fact that current husband #4 doesn't work enough to pay the bills and she refuses to get a job. My step-son lived with us for 2 years and she did not pay one dime in child support. My husband was so forgiving, he never did anything about it. But when she took their son back to live with her, my husband told her he would not pay child support for the next couple years (until he's out of the house) and if she tried to get him to, he would sue her for back support.
She went in to social services and told them my husband hasn't been paying since October. She also failed to show them the court papers we filed saying he didn't have to. She signed them too and so did the judge. And I'm so pissed that she's doing this again.
Sorry, just needed to vent. No one really needs to comment if they don't want to. I"m just really really pissed.