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The 2 younger boys share a room and I had them clean it b/c it was a mess. Anyway they got to the point of making the bed and it was the last thing to do. I went in to make sure everything was done right, well they just slapped the covers and stuff on the bed and not done right at all. I asked "is this how you make a bed?" They said "yes" I looked at them and said no it is not and took the covers off and told them to redo it. They ran out the door and started crying to daddy! they were really crying!! Full blown tears ad everything. They are 13 and 11! Really????? :sick:

O/T We are home owners!

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We have been living in my dh's ex step dads parents house for the last 5 years with option to buy. Well we are having the paper work drawn up and he gave us a rockin' deal! It needs some more work as it is not finished but hey for 40,000 for a 4 bed room and almost acre with a shed can't be beat. Plus it is right in town! Not to mention just 450 a month for ten years and it is paid!

It needs a new ceiling, floors, and trim. But we will be working on all those things.

I am so happy that we finally have something and in 10 years it wil be ours!

O/T I'm on a deit and how it effects me.

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I need to lose 10 lbs and my dh needs to lose 75lbs I am mainly doing this b/c he really needs to lose his weight and I know it is easier to do with someone. So anyway I cut out dr pepper and most of my sweets along with my chips...However the dr pepper is making me crazy super mood swings. I was just a b!tch to customer service..GRRRR I was nasty to my dh as well, he told me to get a bottle of DP and hung up. LOL What should I do? How should I handle this? I don't want to act like this. I want it to level out. I did get a glass and am drinking it. Anyone else have this problem? :?

CS and jsut found out a few things don't know what to do!

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Ok I just found out exactly how much my dh makes including over time. Now since dh has been working for this company he has always had over time but of course that goes up and down. I thought he was making a little less then what he is really making which is why I thought it was only 56 difference but it is 101 difference.

CS and 18?

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I have a question, we have 3 years to go when the oldest will be 18 and I know that dh will have to go to court to make bm sign anything stating that ss is 18 and CS should go down. Now here is my question, CS was set by our lawyer at 140 a week for 3 kids, over the years bm has not taken dh back to get more CS which a good thing b/c if we base it off of 40 hours a week dh pays what he is supposed to but if we base it off his over time he pays about 56 under. So what would happen in court how will it work?

I knew it!

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To follow up on weather dh got his kids this past weekend. He got 1 boy! I blogged that first ss11 called and wanted to go to a bday party over night. Dh let him go to it. Then bm texted and wanted to keep the otehr 2 so she could have some 1 on 1 with ss15. (I blogged about her wanting him to live with us then changed her mind)

Is this classic PAS?

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I blogged about how bm said that ss15 hate dh for leaving her a single mom and as a result she is disabled. (not really she just thinks she is). then I cleared it up with ss15 and he was very angry at his mom and even said she is just disabled in the head. Then she went home and they were fighting and bm said she wants him to live with us then retracted it. Even bought him a pair of $130 shoes and expected dh to pay for half.
On top of that she sent about 4 texts saying how ss15 needs to stay where he is and that god gave her him for a reason and he is going no where.

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