MY first encounter with her.....

I met my Finace's exwife through a court hearing, big surprise!

I had been dating my boyfriend at the time for 9 mths, and just moved in with him, and his kids about 1 mth prior.

I had never even seen a picture of her. All I knew was she was tall and red headed. I was expecting a Victoria Secret Model in my head. You know when you build someone up, like a DJ on the radio by their voice, and then you see them and your astonished how they really look. I had heard her voice on speaker phone when called her children before.

Anyway's there we were awaiting to be called in for their hearing, the state was pressing her to pay her child support since it had been over a year, and she hadn't ever paid anything. I saw her walk off the elevator, and I knew it was her right off. She had red curly long hair down to her butt, and wearing heels even though she is 6'0" tall. She's a giant (I'm only 5'3") She was a big boned woman, not fat but broad shoulders like a foot ball player. Between her height, and shape she wasn't very feminine looking to me. I was so relieved! I couldn't help it my mood improved A LOT!

My boyfriend commented without looking up that she was there because he could hear her already running her mouth. She had expected for him to bring the children to the hearing, but we weren't required to. She was very vocal on why her "ppor babies weren't there".

She has a way of speaking loudly so anyone can hear her. She likes to have all the attention on her. This woman flounced around that court hallway\waiting area for 6 hours before we were called. I say flounced, bounced, ran\skipped (toward the elevator like she had forgotten something in her car, or something I don't know why? ATTENTION I guess because) She sat a few rows of seats in front of us, and turned around about every 10mins, or so to look at us, and make her comments loudly to her friend that she had brought along with her. Like her commenting on our clothes, hair styles, if I was wearing a ring? His new beard? On and on it was unreal. He never even looked in her direction which I'll give it to my fiance was difficult because of the way she was prancing around the place.

When their names were finally called after waiting there all day, it was un nerving to watch them stand infront of a judge side by side. Even though they never spoke to each other directly it was weird seeing them knowing they used to be married, and I loved each other. It's a weird thing to see that.

And at the end of the day we were waiting for the elevator to leave, after we let her leave about 10 mins before us, and when the doors opened guess who was standing there. HER! REALLY! She tried to be cute, by turning her head to the side flirty like and calling him by his nick name pleading with him to catch the elevator with her saying she wouldn't bite us. It was sicking. My finance grabbed my hand, and we turned away and took the stairs. She was outside the front doors smoking infront of the court house when we made our way down. So we had to walk by her again, but she didn't speak that time thank GOD!

After 3 years she still does her turning around thing or walking by thing if we are in a 100 ft radius of her. I guess she's nosey or she's just trying to get him to look at her since he won't ever give her the satisfaction of that. or she's just crazy I think!

Anyway's I just wanted to share my story on the first time I met my SO's ex wife. :sick: