Ok so SO's kids flew in for spring break on Friday. Things are going well since they've been here. We have a court date today, so keeping fingers crossed! But here it is.

I have a VA doctor’s appointment this week. Originally when I scheduled it my SO was going to take an early lunch come home, and watches HIS kids while I went to the doctor. I've waited on this appointment since the latter part of Dec! Yeah the VA is SLOW!

Ok so when the kids lived with us we stayed busy we were doing outings as a family, movies, aquariums, zoo, museums, etc… Even if we didn’t go out we did tent night inside our living room, or back yard camping. SO and I both enjoy being out doing things as a family. We moved to our current city in Oct 2011, and BM took the kids in summer 2012, during that time we had done all the above listed some multiple times.

I've been meaning to post this forever, but I keep forgetting till now. Our BM emails - forwards - CC's – her ex's attorney (my fiancé’s)!

What world would you do that on, and find it acceptable? Apparently our BM thinks she's so competent, so righteous she is allowed, and thinks it's a good idea. She's been doing this since after Christmas visitation. Are you sitting around, and thinking, “gee I think I’ll save the ol’ ex some trouble, and just send it to his attorney first, you know since I’m sending out the email anyways?????”

What experience do you have with children talking to a judge. Who want to live with you not the other parent. My SO’s girl (7) does not want to live with her mother, but with us again. We are on temp orders, and going to jury trial in May for custody.