So visitation was supposed to start 5PM on Friday through 5PM on Sunday for Psycho. I already told you about the hour and a half late and the sister doing the pickup.
So after that. Psycho did not even see the kids until afternoon on Saturday. She then went to a party her sister threw for SD9's birthday. After that she ditched the girls with her brother that night. She also ditched them with her brother the next morning.
That afternoon she took them to a Christmas Party that druggie's family was throwing. Then brought them home about 15 minutes early.
She basically got them out of the car and said "see you on the 20th" and was gone.
Which means, she's not getting SD9 for her birthday hours she gets in the CO either.
Other stuff. Sunday night I was getting the girls in the shower. SD5 took off her shoes, first thing I noticed was that the socks were FILTHY, next thing I noticed was that they were the same ones I sent SD5 in. I ask her about it and her response? "Well the other mom said that I'm not allowed to take off my panties or socks because she doesn't have any for me."
I saw red. That's messing with their health. Of all the things not to change. panties and socks are a NECESSITY for their health. They then proceeded to tell me that Psycho bought a new video game (that came out last week for $60). So apparently, we can spend money all over the place on wants, but we can't be bothered to spend like $10 for enough panties and socks to last the four days a month she's supposed to have them.
I called DH (finishing off his shift), he understood and was frustrated, even said "I'd say I'll talk to her, but I swear I've talked to them a million times and nothing ever changes." No s*** sherlock. Anyways. He wants to finish finals first, but is planning on actually doing what he should have done and calling DHR and filing for child support. I'll believe it when I see it, but at least he seems like he's actually going to take action instead of sitting around and expecting the situation to magically fix itself.
Also, they kept the athletic jacket I got SD5 and sent her back in a too small character jacket that she doesn't even like. They also sent her back in this hideous sundress... When it was 30 degrees last night...
Beyond the legal side of all this. I swear these people don't even have BASIC morals.