Since you can't pick a "side" let me pick one for you MIL. . .
So dh is in the middle of a custody issue with horseface. She just up and out of the blue served him a month and a half ago. Since then dh's mother has been acting shady, more so then normal. Now I know that the woman has never cared for me. She made that very clear when dh and I got married and she told me that "Horseface and I are friends and are close and are Always going to be." I can read between the lines and took that as an indication that MIL and I would NOT be friends. Who cares? Really, lady? She continues to do every little thing for BM and keeps pictures of her up in her house. Anyway, fast-forward to last night. I find out from dh's aunt that the evil stink wagon bm has invited dh's ENTIRE wedding coming up next week!! Yes, HIS family! And the aunt goes on to tell me that MIL told horseface bitch devil cunt bm that she "could not choose sides" in the custody issue! Ok, let me just say this...what the fuck?! Are you kidding me? You can't choose sides? Or you won't choose sides? Lady, this is your only living breathing son! You're flesh and blood and you are choosing a manipulative harpie over him!! I am beyond words, step-talkers. In fact, I am feeling a pain in my heart that is rare, and is generally reserved for my children when they suffer from some injustice. But I feel it for my dh today. The absolute nerve of this woman! I want dh to call his mother out on this bullshit. I doubt he will. But I want to call her up and tell her "If it is so hard for you to make a decision, let me do it for you. Never call dh again. You are not welcome in OUR home and as for seeing ss...well I will make it my mission in life to prevent you from ever laying eyes on that child again on dh's parenting time. If you are so close with fuckface bm why don't you beg to see ss on her time and perhaps she will be benevolent enough to let you...you being so close and all."
I seriously did not sign on for all of this. I would never let somebody manipulate me or my family this way and I don't know how dh stands for it. It makes me resentful and cold.