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princessandthepee's picture

There are so many great people on this site, thanks for the good birthday wishes!

I have a few minutes to post before my husband gets back from dropping off the UHaul truck. We spent my birthday continuing to pack up over twenty years of stuff and memories from his old house and moving them into what was my house and is now our house.

It was a unique way to spend my birthday, but I didn't mind. It is so painful for him to go back to his old house, which has been on the market for over about six months (no bites unfortunately).

princess was here and left by late Saturday afternoon. Her hair is breaking off, and the only conversation she and I had was about that. She's a natural blonde but has seen fit to continually dye her pretty blonde hair to nearly platinum (not as pretty). Now it's all broken off, she's lost her long hair. I have some pretty good hair treatments because when I was going through my divorce I lost my hair due to stress. It's grown back, thank God : ) She left without saying thank you, and did some grocery shopping in our house to boot while we werenn't looking. She didn't ask, and was a snot to her dad when he addressed it with her via text. She also spent time bitching at her dad because he refuses to give her money for personal expenses she is perfectly capable of covering. I agree with my husband, I think the grocery shopping was a kind of revenge thing on her part. She has to take when she's here, and if she can't get cash, she'll grab whatever. Her financial support from us does include a full meal plan at her college.

Anyway. Found pee's pot paraphenelia last week while cleaning their bathroom (who's dumb enought to leave that stuff out of the bathroom counter?)

When my husband and I were at his old house today, by ourselves, because they won't help, I made some interesting discoverites. Tons of lighters, empty cigarette pack and a homemade pipe in his kids' old bathroom. A color copy of a naked, presumably teenage girl, from the ribs down. Legs spread wide on a beach (princess likes to do her 'modeling' photo shoots on the beach) thrusting forward. I couldn't believe it. I hope it was not princess for so many reasons. In her old room, giant bottles of vodka, one she's still working on. Condoms, lingerie strewn about. And one clothing item hanging in her old closet. The 650.00 hand tailored bridesmaid dress I paid for for my husband's and my wedding. Cigarette butts in her old room, etc.

I think we'll find proper time to celebrate with a nice dinner. I was glad to be with him there today, because it is so hard for him to revisit the shell of his old life.

So we emptied out the giant bottle of vodka, and I would like to place it in a position of honor on her dresser so the next time she is here she gets to experience whatever weird emotions she will knowing we know she has been abusing their old house, using it as a party pad.

There are many posts I want to comment on, he just pulled in, I need to give him comfort, these things take so much from him.

An unusual birthday, but not a bad one. Except shit, I'm 45!

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icecubenow's picture

SA, Cesar Milan? You keep mentioning this show...when? Where?

I am SO looking for a private perspective that will keep me on the right track for the next 7 months.

icecubenow's picture

Happy Birthday!

I am wondering how princess feels about having her hair break off! If SD17 had one strand break off, she'd go into a complete meltdown. She thinks her hair defines her.

I'd like to sharpen my scissors.