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He Drove His Big Balls Home

princessandthepee's picture

And walked his big balls up the stairs. And gave me the blow by blow.

They ended up meeting at a coffee shop per his suggestion. He said she appeared nervous, and he asked her why. "Well, I thought you might take away my cell phone or my stupid ass monster truck."
"Well, that's been talked about and that may happen."

He told her that she will be a participating member of this family and not only refrain from causing division and oppression within the home, but that she will add to the home in a positive fashion. And that if she doesn't, she will not have a place here.

He talked with her about her disrespectful tone and words with him. She piped in that she learned it from watching her mother do it to him. He told her that is done, that she will no longer speak to him disrespectfully or argue with him disrespectfully.

He brought up how my kids asked about princess and pee eating dinner with us the other night, and that my nine year old asked a day and a half after she huffed off if princess were still here. He confronted her on her isolating behavior and the messages that behavior was sending.

He told her she will not interfere with pee's efforts to build a life here (picked up pee tonight from wrestling, he won the varsity spot he had his eye on, good for him! He worked hard for it.)

He told her she has two choices regarding her feral cat. One, he is declawed and we see if it becomes workable. Two, we will find another place for him immediately. She opted for declawing after he shot down her brilliant idea of letting him have at it with the other cats. The other cats are literally half his size, as he is a pixel bob cat. He is the only one that has claws. One of my cats, Yoda, is a Himmelayan. Yoda is incapable of fighting, even to defend himself. He's just a live plush toy. Her cat has appointment with the vet this Thursday.

He said that the basement door is going to be open from now on. He discussed with her that the basement door being closed gives an oppressive feel to the house and sends a message to everyone that it's not ok for to go down there.

He told her she will not use this home as a flop house. That she will clean up after herself and keep the downstairs bathroom clean.

He told her she needs to and will get a job. We are not providing additional financial support, and if she does not meet these expectations that the finanical support she currently has will end.

He confronted her about the booze and condom wrappers and naked pictures at his old house, which has yet to sell. She tried to blame that on him, suggesting that she did those things because he was at what is now our house so much of the time. He didn't buy it. He told her she will treat our houses with respect. She said the pictures were not of her, and I hope they are not.

princess tried to make a case that I haven't respected her and that she has not felt respected here. Whatever.

He asked her repeatedly throughout the conversation, "Do you understand and accept these terms?" To which she had to repeatedly say yes, knowing her car and cell phone and very room in this house are at stake.

Now, I don't give a rip whether princess buys into this internally. What I do care about and what she knows is that her behavior is under a microscope. She knows she is on the verge of being booted out on her entitled ass.

When we were at his old house moving more things and came across the booze, condom wrappers, pictures and vibrator packaging, I saw that she had left a single garment in her closet. The beautiful, pure silk hand tailored gown that I gave her free rein to design as she wished with the seamstress. She had previously told her father she had everything she wanted out of that house. I took the dress back, she has no idea that it is a 650.00 dress. We're the same size. The dress is now mine, and she will never have it again.

There might be more I'm not remembering at the moment, but ladies, I am still quite turned on by his big balls!

We are taking the house back. Basement opens up Thursday for living again. JoJo, you made some great comments and I want to say more about them.

And your latest blog! You are very wise and if you were man you'd have really big balls!!! : )

Comments

oneoffour's picture

Isn't it amazing how the potential loss of their creature comforts make then cower in the corner... LOVE it!

Lioness77's picture

I am so excited to read this post. I have been waiting to see what happened... I wish your husband gave lessons... my FDH needs some serious boosting in terms of standing up to his 16 yo son and 13 yo daughter. They walk all over him...daily.. and bcause hes so "guilty" over everything theyve ever had happen to them /never had given to them,he always gives in, says yes, backs down.

Give that husband of yours a huge hug and pat yourselves on the back for such great teamwork... WELL DONE@@

princessandthepee's picture

Oops, JoJo, a man, not man. Typo. A man, Amen, hallelujiah.

There is so much goodwill and support on this site. A true godsend.

giveitago's picture

Attaboy! Love it! DH finally told SS something too, let him know for sure that he is not just going to come here when he wants something, or bitch if he doesn't get what he wants. SS dropped out in sophomore year, hates us, moved out of our house, blames me for everything that's wrong in his life (he'll learn) and has had three changes of address and now lives with BM...shit to hit the fan yet on that one and when it does we will do NOTHING! The boy is 18 now, it is sore on his dad that he's turning out this way but DH is no dummy.

princessandthepee's picture

JoJo, and StepAside,

As always, thanks!

I'm going to post a very short blog and get my butt into the clinic. Yes, the cup of self respect is tasting wonderful and my husband is enjoying it, too! And you know, I am going to burn sage down there, and do it when princess is here.

He was dreading the confrontation, but I could tell in a way he was looking forward to it as well. When he came home last night, he said, "I'm being tested." He showed me some texts from pee regarding the declawing of that dumb feral cat. pee said the declawing was not happening, at least until he had cleared it with princess. My husband told him he doesn't make the decisions here, the decision has been made and it is happening tomorrow. When he left pee's room, pee slammed the door. My husband opened the door and said, "No slamming." And pee said he would shut his door and not slam it, and he hasn't since.

Later last night my husband said to me, "This is like a far off dream of parenting which I could never do while married to her." I said, "It's not a dream anymore. It's right here and it's real." My husband was very content last night, and pee asked me to cut his hair, which I was happy to do. I agree, StepAside, kids need boundaries and as much as they kick and scream, it's a relief for them. And I know pee is feeling some relief from having to be princess's operative.

And JoJo, I can tell even from an anonymous blog site that your brother is right!