and I have to stop and remember, based on his example, how it is done right. DH took SD16 to follow-up DR appt. BM had taken SD over month ago to appt with this MD, and made follow up due to some meds were trying for acne, and BM's desire to start birth control for acne and regulations. DH had taken SD to GYN last week, who did not agree w/using BC for acne and only in extreme instances of problematic periods--I totally agree with this assessment.

First, I get a lovely message from BM, stating that she will not open my email I sent because she doesn't think sending email between us is good (better than talking to the witch), then she proceeds to send me an email, and copies my DH in---on what she thinks I got him for his Bday---WHAT? I just want to B slap her. Of course it is what I got him, and I am sure that SD probably mentioned it, but why would anyone copy in the person who it is for!!!!!

It has not even been two months since judge told BM that she is too much of a friend to SD16---too accepting, too supportive to the point of unmotivating her. But BM decides to pull it again, and I am so tired of DH doing this. It is BM visitation weekend, she picks up SD from school, runs by my house because a book is forgotten, and then wants to hang around to talk to DH. I say NO, can go somewhere else and come back if need to talk to him (in past she causes scenes and have had to call cops when she refuses to leave, so she is generally not allowed on our property).

SD16 supposed to be at BM over weekend. Get call Saturday afternoon, BM and SD got into fight, BM ended up calling cops b/c she felt threatened. DH goes to p/up SD, but charges are only dropped if SD agrees to come home and follow rules. She claims she will. Well, low and behold, she threatens to run, we call cops two more times over weekend (does run away on Sunday). All over SD BF. SD is out of control, BM can't handle her in these situations, so it is up to us to "fix her" before she can go see BM again.