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Totally Mind Blown by this Realization! MINI-WIFE!

PoshMama's picture

:jawdrop:

In a recent thread, I came across this link: http://miniwifesyndrome.com/mini-wife-traits.html

My husband and I are going through a really stressful situation involving his daughters (ages 7 & 9). SD7 has behavioral issues and is in her own world (although she will go along with whatever drama BM and SD9 stir up), but his 9 year old daughter causes all kinds of havoc and hell! I posted yesterday about SD7 & SD9 falsely accusing me of refusing to supply/apply sunscreen to them, cursing at them, and yelling at the over spilled juice. These accusations caused BM to blow up, defame my character, etc. I wasn't even alone with the girls! Scary!

I'm just totally elated and ecstatic to finally have a "link" to a site that encompasses every single trait of SD9, and what she's been putting me and our family through. Why haven't I heard of this before!?! This is the hell I've been dealing with, going on 6 years.

My questions to all you ladies are, does a Mini-Wife ever get over it? Do they grow up to be complete and deliberate bitches? Do they remain hell-bent to ruin their Father's life? Does it get better once they have 'boyfriends'? What are some effective tactics to use in dealing with a Mini-Wife?

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thinkthrice's picture

Only if DH doesn't buy into it will it ever get a bit better. Some men are oddly flattered by having more than one woman "fight" for his attention.