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SD14's new style. SMH

porcelian-doll's picture

SD14 had her hearing with the judge and she got sentenced to community service hours and has a curfew of being home by 7oclock for the next year. I'm not allowed to go into detail but yeah.

Now She has a new style. Says she just wants to have a new attitude because sentencing has made her think about stuff and its time to change. DH and I thought she was saying she wants to be a better person and dress in a more dignified way. She spends the day with BM and comes back with her beautiful long hair cut into a really short bob and dyed pitch black on the top and hot pink on the bottom with a few light pink highlights. She is wearing a long black lacey maxi skirt and a layered pink and black halter top. BM took her 14 year old daughter to get her bottom lip pierced after DH strictly said no piercings. SD says she is going for a more mature look.

Ummm how is that mature? SD is a pretty girl average height a little curvy , olive skin and she use to have pretty long brown hair. Now she looks like deaths angel. Dh wanted her to take the lip ring out but she can't because she might risk infection. What was BM thinking? BM says she is just expressing herself through her own sense of style. All I can say is WOW. This is too much for her age and I bet DH is going to throw away all these new clothes. The look on his face made me want to laugh so hard though but I bit my lip.

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DarkStar's picture

Sounds like your SD and my SD both are on the train for Slutville!

We should buy them both that great Dr Seuss book, "All the Places You'll be a Ho" }:)

Shaman29's picture

SMDH......14 with a lip ring. Your SD has one classy BM there.

When DH's kid got her nose pierced at 15, she texted DH the photo. He started going off about it and telling me he was going to tell her to take it out, etc. I looked at him and said...that is what she and Uberskank are going for by sending you that picture. They're trying to upset you and have you freak out.

So do the opposite. Just write back, oh....congrats on the piercing. When she comes over, do not stare or talk about it. If she brings it up, shrug and say.....it's your nose.

And that is exactly what he did, gave them a non-reaction. Completely took the wind out of their sails. }:)

I suggest you and your DH do the same thing. Do not react because that is what they're looking for and they went with a look that is the polar opposite of your own coloring. On purpose.

somedevilishbeauty's picture

I dont ge the cant take it out???? risk infection?? she is at a risk of infection either way the mouth is a sestpool for germs.

somedevilishbeauty's picture

Oh i might add, my SD just arived at our house in a ruffly short skirt. DH of course was against it. I told her its not up to me how she dresses but id allow if if and only if she would be okay with me wearing somehting similar while in public with her.. she went upstairs and changed...... not saying it would work for you , but it might get her to change if she sees what it looks like on someone else. Get a wig and try it out ha ha it might be fun

porcelian-doll's picture

lol she would die. And me in a halter with my little baby bump coming in. LOL I should so do it, it with so be worth the look on her face.

somedevilishbeauty's picture

DO IT!!! then sit really close to her and if she says anything just be like" Im trying ot look more mature" }:)

porcelian-doll's picture

LOL. Ok I am about to head to the wig shop and then to walmart. I will even but a clip on earing for my lip. I will be back later to post about how this goes. You guys are brilliant lol.

Shaman29's picture

Surprisingly, DH's kid's nose piercing was very small and tasteful.

Personally, I didn't care that she did it. DH on the other hand..................wigged out in private. Mostly because she couldn't keep her ear piercings from becoming infected at the drop of a hat. He started complaining her nose would eventually fall off from getting infected just as much.