Christmas card conundrum
DS is having his first Christmas (he was born right after Christmas last year), and I wanted to do a First Christmas card with his photo, but will I get flack for not including SS8 who is long distance? We won't be seeing him here until the week of Christmas, though DH is visiting him for Thanksgiving for a couple of days. I didn't send out Birth Announcements so I wanted to send this as a combo Birth Announcement/First Christmas card. Should I get them and send to my family only and send DH's family generic Christmas cards? Should I use a random iPhone photo of both boys and send them to everyone? I know blended family stepmoms who have their own bio kids miss out on a lot of the firsts because they have to think about the skids, but I can't help feeling I want my own first baby on his own Christmas card for his first year. BM will prob do an SS Xmas card. Thoughts? Advice? Please no "you're a crap stepmom for being selfish, blah blah). I would appreciate real advice from those who have experienced this before. What solution has worked out best?