They dont need consiquences according to dh
Bs3 had a grumpy day at school yesterday. So when we got home I told him that his consiquence for not listening at school was that he doesn't get to have any dessert after dinner. He accepts this without complaint and appologizes for having a bad day at school. Dh over heard this and here is the conversation that followed.
Dh: just let the kid have some candy
Me: no, he needs consiquences for his actions, and the consiquence for being difficult ay school is no candy.
Me: Because he needs consiquences to learn right from wrong
Dh: These kids don't have any consiquences (refering to the skids)
Me: I give him a are you stupid look "exactly, hun, exactly"
Dh: hey, what's that supposed to mean
Me: I just stared at him....