Honest opinions please
For anyone who doexnt know the history.... My inlaws hate me z.d dont acknowledge my kids with dh as family.
Sil sent my husband a text on Sunday that they werr having nieces 4th birtnday tbis Sunday. Its at step_mil house (where sil also lives). She phrased her invite..... We would love it if you would come and bring all the kids.
Now, to me that sounds like she is underhandedly inviting dh and the kids... But excluding me.
This is the first time a niece bday has been at stepmil, so up to now I have always attended. I love the dads side of the family znd they love me and my kids. I am simply not comfortzble in smil home, as they makeit plainly clear that I am not wanted.
Do I go on Sunday and be there for niece? Or do I stick with my gut and decli.e to go? If I dont go then I wont let my kids go either, so I feel bad since bs4 loves playing with his cousin. But I just do t feel comfortable with my kids around those people witbout me there to protect them.