So last week, DH went to pick up his tickets for SS7 Christmas concert. While he was there the kids where just going to lunch, so he asked to see SS. Well I guess SS told his mom that DH was at the school. BM called the school and told them that DH is to have no contact with SS at the school what so ever. We found that out cuz DH called the school to see if there were any tickets left so his parents could also go to the concert. And the sectratery had said that DH is not alwolled to see SS with out concent from BM. That is so not right, they have shared cusidy and gaudianship. Why do BM try to keep the kids from having any extra contact with their kids. BM is "allowed" to keep SS when ever she feels like it on the weekends. But if Dh wants to see SS durning the week it's a plain no. Even if while she's at work, and the SS is at a babysitterss. She even tried to get DH to pay for the sitter, but we said no, cuz we could watch him for the two hours afyer school for free. We just don't have the extra money. But she said that wouldn't work. it's just one more way for BM trying to make DH less of a dad. I told DH just to keep pushing to see his son, and go to the school, what can she really do. Nothing. Cuz of how the court order is, they have shared cusity, so as long as he's not taking SS off school proerty during school hour, or when it's not his visition take him, then everything is fine. it will just piss her off. oh well.