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Valentine day?! Sh***t

PB's picture

And it's Valentine's day, he know i like to celebrate small things and special days, but this year i'm gonna write a card for him to say, you go buy roses and gifts for your b**ch ex wife and your rude daughter.

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shamds's picture

He has no job, doesn't intend on getting a job, happy to freeload off you and use you. Frankly any kids in fulltime excuse is no excuse for any parent to claim they're a stay at home parent. You get off your arse and get a job.

not all of us were born with an inheritance or trust fund and loaded as we never had to work a day in our lives. What at all is appealing about this man??

there are many things yrs ago that made my husband not appealing in any way to the point I didn't want intimacy with him over his treatment towards us and our kids together, how he treated that first family of his and how he encouraged and condoned skids behaviour towards us. 

told hubby very clearly that it was clear as day after 3 yrs of marriage, he had no intentions of change, of ensuring we were treated well and he was delusional to think any of us would lap this bullshit up and divorce was the only option.

that was my husbands wakeup call to grow some balls that his pathetic never ending excuses, allowing encouraging and condoning skids behaviour towards us out of fear they would cut him off served no benefit if he lost me and the kids to divorce because he knew damn well with his job he was incapable of any form of custody with our 2 minor kids.

People are delusional if they think treating you like a doormat and atm motivates you to remain married

PB's picture

It's Saturday so sd is off from school, dh and sd goes to the beach all day spend time together like every day! They have fun, they eat, they play, they catch fish, and i'm working at the moment under lots of pressure, and tomorrow i'm off, but no no no, no day off for me. It's always their time!

justmakingthebest's picture

I am sending you a big hug!

Ignore them. Don't let them see that they have gotten to you. If he says anything about Valentines day, just say, Oh... I forgot. 

Remember, right now you focus on you and your health and happiness.