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Submitted by PB on Fri, 08/12/2022 - 3:14am

Why should my life be just about Sd? Why i should just work at work, and then work at home, and stand 4 days a week SD in my home? i really don't understand. She is not my kid.I didn't marry her. I didn't choose her. I don't want her all the time. Why should everything be about her? I have lack of love, laugh, fun and many other things in my life. I see the other couples hand in hand without anyone to disturb them 24/7 and i feel my life is done. I need love, i need somnmeone to call me my love, how my husband calls her daughter. I need trust, to trust my husband like he is standing by my side whatever happens. Like the way my husband is by her daughter. I needed a man who wants me just for me, not if i love her daughter he loves me if not he treats me cold. I never knew i would be where i am now. I'm missing everything.

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Winterglow's picture

Submitted by Winterglow on Fri, 08/12/2022 - 3:49am

So why are you putting up with this? You married a man who refuses to work, who behaves like a petulant child when called out, who puts his daughter AND his ex way before you, who is bleeding you of every last cent you have to make his daughter and his ex happy - what are you getting out of this? What is stopping you from dumping this loser? He is using you to give his daughter a decent life rather than working himself to finance it. What kind of a "man" is that? How can you respect someone like that much less love him? What is keeping you there?

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Submitted by Harry on Fri, 08/12/2022 - 5:13am

Throw them out.  He can move in with the EX and have the Happppy family he wants.  

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Submitted by Dogmom1321 on Fri, 08/12/2022 - 8:21am

Toss them to the curb! You deserve better. Don't let life pass you by while waiting and hoping for someone who doesn't exist. 

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Fri, 08/12/2022 - 8:51am

There is literally not one single thing that this marriage has done for you. There is 0 fulfillment. No affection or love. You are their slave and nothing else. Work, and provide and let them live their best lives. You are strong enough to leave/ kick them out and start fresh!! 

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Submitted by PB on Fri, 08/12/2022 - 7:32pm

Yep. I asker myself million times, am I their slave?

Its 4 o'clock in the morning and I need to wake up at 7 and go to work. Sd woke us up now to say I cant sleep it's too hot put the air on on. I was like the aircon was just shot 1 hour ago. Who the hell is going to pay the bill? If it was me or her mom we would tell her to go to bed and try to sleep. But oh my God her kindly dad who loves his princess woke up and turned it on. Oh yeah and I'm gonna pay for it. I'm sick of the. I hate these people...

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Submitted by thinkthrice on Fri, 08/12/2022 - 9:37am

But you need to take action!

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Submitted by reedle2021 on Fri, 09/09/2022 - 3:03pm

PB, please read my posts.  I hope you are doing better.  You have the power to change your situation.  Your posts remind me of how I felt being with my ex husband and his manchild, "I hate these people."  He always put his son (and his son's girlfriends) ahead of me.  I felt the same way, like I hated them, why am I here, why can't I ever be first, I wanted to be loved and respectd, etc.  I can tell you, it hurts to make the decision to leave but once you make that decision and go, it's amazing.  You then have power, freedom and happiness even if you're alone - and that is coming from my personal experience.  You are miserable with this guy as I was with my ex.  I doubt he will ever change. 

Please put yourself first.  You can do better and there are far worse things than being alone.