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update on morning mayem......

patwinmom's picture

So i told my ss13 and sd10 that they will be walking the 2 blocks to school. when my dh came home i informed him of what they did, and how they were acting and that i was no longer driving them to school until they learn how to treat me, he just agreed and said ok they do need to learn. glad i got his support on that one. Well my dh had off of work yesterday, and what does he do. he drives them to school! i was in the laundry room and my dh husband walked in and said i will be right back, i asked where he was going so early in the morning and he said i'm taking the kids to school. I just stared at him because i had nothing to say and i could not believe it! (WTF! doesn't anyone listen to me anymore?) So i justgave him a dirty look and left the room. He knew i wasn't happy about it and he never said anything else about it and neither did i. Although when their BM called he did tell her that sd10 is terrible and i will no longer drive her to school until she learns how to treat me, BM agreed that she is nasty and has an attitude problem. This morning I woke my skids up and they never said one word to me and they both walked to school without me reminding them (theya re both super pissed im making them walk). Maybe he feels bad for driving them when i said they had to walk cause he went out and bought me a laptop lol, hen asked why he just said i deserve it!

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Mich811's picture

My DH does things like this too, and it drives me CRAZY. It totally undermines your ability to discipline the kids, and of course they won't respect you if he isn't showing support for your decisions.

sadstepmom26's picture

Well seems like it worked. He took them to school yesterday but they walked today. Dont cave. Let them continue walking.