So here I am months later. His daughter still hasn't moved in.
So here I am months later. His daughter still hasn't moved in. I still am moved out. I rented an apartment. We talk daily and I see him at least once a week. Nothing has changed. He still post the wonderful daughter crap on facebook. I still have to hear all about their every move. He says he will find out in the next few weeks their plans on moving down. We talk about me moving back in and I always get the "will you be able to live with her" speech. Seems like he should be asking her that. My lease is up in May. Then I have to decide what to do. I don't have many friends and am lonely. He was/is my best friend. I guess if I had more then I wouldn't depend on him so much.
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Meh, go to or back to
Meh, go to or back to wherever it is you want to be. It doesn't sound like he's too worried about where you are and how happy or miserable you are.
^^^This for sure.
^^^This for sure.
Think about what things would
Think about what things would be like if you did move back. You'll have to decide on what you are willing to put up with. But don't put yourself in a position where you'd be moving right back out.
If he's already asking YOU if you will be able to live with HER, then that should indicate to you how things will be if you do go back.
Why would you want to move
Why would you want to move into that situation? If I had to do it over again I wouldn't be living in the same house and that would be if there were NO KIDS. You'd think I'd learn the first time.
Join a book club.
Doesn't sound like much of a
Doesn't sound like much of a realtionship if you only see each other once a week. What is he doing the rest of the week, sounds to me like you are just sitting around waiting on him to call or want to see you. I agree with everyone else that you need to get a life of your own, sounds like he has a life other than with you.
Sounds like focusing on
Sounds like focusing on yourself instead of him would solve many problems. Find some classes to take or go to the library or whatever! You will find yourself a lot happier not dealing with someone else's drama and might make a friend or 5.