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well it's been two years

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Submitted by overthere on Fri, 07/31/2015 - 12:04pm

I have lived apart from my husband for two years. We haven't done anything since his daughter moved in. Read previous blogs to find out backstory. Now he says he doesn't know if he wants to be with me. He can't decide. i have threatened the divorce papers. I said i would just put the day i filed so we would have six months. He liked that idea. I can barely get in touch with him. He never wants to spend time with me. He doesn't call me. I have to call him. i am afraid it is over.

Husband has energy for SGK but nothing for me

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Submitted by overthere on Mon, 04/21/2014 - 12:40pm

I am so discouraged. So I moved out and was supposed to be "dating" my husband. What do I do if he doesn't want to go on dates. He says he is stuck in a rut and doesn't feel like doing anything. I told him that some days I do. All he wants to do is go on the back deck and drink. He even moved a tv out there so he drinks and watches tv out there. I go over and that is all we do. Drink and watch tv. Not much of dating. Not much of a relationship if you ask me. He was gone out of town to see his granddaughter (my step grand) for a week. He sure had energy to do things with them.

OT - Son is failing

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Submitted by overthere on Tue, 04/15/2014 - 2:49pm

Does anyone have any suggestions on how they got their teenager who was failing to step up? He does have ADD but I can't seem to get him to take the meds. and when he is at his dad's house, his dad doesn't reinforce the need for medicine. I am looking for organization suggestions, study suggestions and consequences. Thank you.

Living apart from DH

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Submitted by overthere on Mon, 03/24/2014 - 11:11am

Has anybody moved out because of stepkids and had it work? I have been living apart from my husband since July of last year. I feel as if we are growing apart. I don't see how it will continue to work. I told my husband I want to be a family and he just says he is sorry.

So here I am months later. His daughter still hasn't moved in.

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Submitted by overthere on Thu, 02/13/2014 - 1:25pm

So here I am months later. His daughter still hasn't moved in. I still am moved out. I rented an apartment. We talk daily and I see him at least once a week. Nothing has changed. He still post the wonderful daughter crap on facebook. I still have to hear all about their every move. He says he will find out in the next few weeks their plans on moving down. We talk about me moving back in and I always get the "will you be able to live with her" speech. Seems like he should be asking her that. My lease is up in May. Then I have to decide what to do. I don't have many friends and am lonely.