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My BM drama for Labor day...what a B*%&*

overit2's picture

So, both BF and I have the kids this wknd. Sat went good, Sunday was good. Of course his ex calls yesterday to see if their BD was coming home-knowing well that she was going back Monday. So-he reminds her they'll see her today-at evening. So BM obviously can't handle knowing her daughter has a good time with us. Has to try to "entice" her back. When it's my BF's time-of course!

She sends a text this am...have D call me I have a surprise...so I"m already mad thinking can't it wait until dropoff time?? SO BF says what is it-she's with me. So she sends a pic of a puppy-which of course she already named..so it's a suprise for you D but you named it...and of course it can't wait till later? So texts start going back forth...maybe a total of 15 minimum today??? Asking us if we're doing anything otherwise to bring the girl to her for a cookout and such...on and on. It just escalates...that's her way of controlling our time with the BD-and somehow making it about her. Of course we didn't say anything about pup or have the D call her BM...this is his time! She always every time does this. She knows the girl prefers to be with us so she has to make it about her and entice her back and try to cut in with the BF's time. F'in beaacht...I could slap someone right now!

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Last-Wife's picture

been there. done that. Have the t-shirt.

turn off the phone. have fun. Take her home when it's time.

Tx mommy of 3's picture

He is 10. Heck yeah take the phone away! Put it up. If she really needs to get a hold of him she'll cll you. Or have dh tell her she can talk to ss as many times as she let's dh tlk to ss when he is away. If he wants to tlk to his mom allow it though. Or just tell him to tun it off and he cn check his voicemail before bed.