BF needs to S*$& or get off the pot!!! My patience is growing thin.
Good heavens, another evening last night with bf venting for hours about his grievance w/his situation-his BM and kid.
I mean please SHIT OR GET OFF THE POT! do something now or give it up, get on with it or quit complaining about it, stop procrastinating -make up your mind’ and do something, either make a decision about the dna test/custody whathaveyou....I've been patient...2 years patient. And a part of me doesn't want to rush him because I cannot fathom making such a decision and how painful it must be to chose to either become a doormat and taken advantage of the rest of your life for someone who isn't really your kid-or to get the test...and perhaps give up any visiation/csupport and relationship with whom you know as your D.
He's tormented with making this choice but not making it is tormenting to him and me also. He can't get on with his life, he's always angry, bitter and upset about the tricks BM pulls (yet again she pulled a fast one yesterday). It trickles down to us where 2-3 times a week we are ending up discussing the same crap over and over again and he does nothing about it.
He'll get in a bad/foul mood, he's mad, he'll vent, bitch, moan, and it affects our relationship because then any good time we might have had was ruined with his mood.
He says he's waiting for his parents to be on board with him but who knows...I know he's close to deciding and as his gf and the one that loves him I know I am supposed to be supportive, patient and I AM...but damn it I DO need to vent about it just to release steam or I'll say smoething to him and it won't be pretty. UGHHHH