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O/T Impending visit is giving me psycho anxiety / kinda long

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So I'm traveling next week to my ds' high school graduation. I'm beside myself with GLEEEEEE to see him as it's been a few months since we've spent time in person.

I'd like to first say that I've been diagnosed with general anxiety disorder, I see a therapist and take meds. Currently I'm not sure these are the right meds for me, I'm seeing a psychiatrist for a med eval next month.

I'm not your nanny, bitch.

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So after months of the bowel movement making sure that I'm aware that sd15 and ss9 are, NOT BY ANY MEANS EVER AT ALL EVER DO YOU HEAR ME N E V E R, allowed to be at our place while dh isn't home, she sends a text yesterday to him, "requesting a change in the visiting/parenting agreement". She would like to alternate weekends and have the two kids mentioned come over every evening of during the week....when he isn't home....he works 2pm-11pm, 6 on two off, rotating.

Thinking a little more clearly now

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It's amazing how finding my people has enabled me to start thinking a little more clearly. I was reading a post yesterday about a woman who, after five years of being the Uberstepmom, decided to pull back because the BM is a crybaby bitch, basically. I got home, SS9 had a fit about having to leave for the store with all of us; instead of correcting him and getting pissed off at what a pain in the rear he is, (he NEVER wants to do anything other than sit in front of a screen), I took a shower, had a nap, then woke up, laid in my bed and played some Hearthstone on my tablet. DONE.

Quick Note

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Just wanted to say that I'm feeling super encouraged by the warm welcome I've received so far, thanks again everyone! Also wanted to note that I'll probably be more active in posting during the day, sporadically late at night; don't wanna be one of those post abandoning peeps. Have a great night all!

Okay...Short Intro, 3rd Time's the Charm?

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I tried to post a short intro earlier this week so I hope it isn't sitting around anywhere else, if it is, I apologize!

Not sure how much info is safe to give out, but the gist is this: I've got 3 skids, OSD16, SD15, SS9. OSD has been living w her dad, dh, full time for over two years now and has no contact at all with BM. The other two go back and forth between BMS and our place.

New Blog

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So this is a test post to make sure I'm doing this blog thing right. I tried to post something earlier this week, but somehow it didn't work.

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