BM has this thing where once every couple of months she'll give BF a ziplock bag with a bunch of coupons that she's clipped for us - diapers, wipes, food, air freshener, and other random stuff. I don't want her coupons. We don't even use coupons. Never have! Not that we're too good for coupons, we just don't have the time or inclination to keep up with them. I always take them to work and leave them out with a note, "Take these if you want" and most of them get taken up. I guess they're getting put to good use that way anyway...but really I don't know why she's doing this.

BM is apparently complaining because the week long vacation that we've planned starts on what is "technically her weekend." I would like to know how she expects BF to get SS for two weeks over the summer and one of those weekends to NOT fall on what would have "normally" been her weekend. Funny how it's OK for her to plan trips and activities on what would "normally" be BF's time and expect him to just deal with it.

BF gave instructions to his lawyer several months ago that if BM would provide proof of employment and allow an official to inspect her home, he would drop the custody lawsuit. BM finally got her lawyer to talk to BF's lawyer, and talked to BF about it today. She agreed to do both things, and so now all they need to do is agree on who will perform the inspection.

BF called BM last night to ask if she was going to let SS go on vacation with us this summer, it's been over 24 hours and still no answer. In his message he told her that we needed to make reservations so we need to know if he's going (of course he didn't use the dreaded "WE" he said "I" which I pointedly noticed), and asked her to email or call him so they could talk about it. She called this morning so early that she knew he would still be in bed, and left a voicemail that said he could either call her before 7:15 AM or after 3:15 PM and they could discuss it.