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Starting to weird me out

Nymh's picture

I know I've been posting a lot of blogs lately, and I'm sorry...but BM is starting to weird me out. We haven't fought or anything in weeks now. I don't know what caused this sudden shift in her behavior. In the past there have been hours or at the most maybe a day or two here and there where she's been cooperative and civil, but never for this long. My BF is convinced that something is up. This is completely uncharacteristic of her in the 14 years that he's known her and the 3 years that I've been dealing with her. Last night she asked me a question about something that happened on visitation. When I explained the answer she said "No problem". I asked if we needed to discuss anything else and she said not to worry about it, that things would be fine. BF read the emails and was like "whaaaaaat??" No argument, no snide remarks, no insults...nothing. BF is afraid that BM knows something bad is coming our way legally so she's playing nice. I know that she doesn't have a boyfriend. She's never listened to anyone before about her negative behavior. Maybe someone just got it through her head? I don't know what's going on. I'm still going to enjoy it while it lasts but I can't help but wonder WHY...

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happy's picture

As long as its calm right now and as long as you both are on your toes.. As long as you both are aware of the situation..

Because we are so used to having our boxing gloves on when things are smooth its like we dunno if we want to rest our arms or not.. Because just about the time you do she will be right back in your face and you the guard you had up will not be ready... I hope I said that all the way it can be understood..

Just take it all in.. But keep your guards up.. You know that its just a matter of time before another bombshell goes off..

Lastly enjoy it for the time being.. Smile and take a deep breath..

Nymh's picture

You've got it right on the mark, and that's exactly what we're doing. Enjoying it while it lasts, but trying not to get too excited. I can't help but hope that it's permanent but I know better!

*~So sayeth Nymh~*