Ok, so most of the time this woman is hell-bent on my destruction. Most of you probably have read my "Did I mention she's psycho?" post (if not I suggest you do to get a little background). It's hard to explain it, but every now and then she'll kind of switch modes temporarily and treat me as if I wasn't the woman dating her ex, but rather a friend that she can confide in and let her feelings out to.

I think it's because she's so lonely and desperate for someone to listen to her or support her that she'll accept it from everyone, even the person that she hates the most. She has no friends and is completely antisocial. It's really surreal when she does it because I'm thinking to myself, "yesterday this woman was cussing me out and now she's acting like we're old friends at a sleepover...".

She feels the need to reinforce her independence by telling someone how much she doesn't need him and has everything worked out without depending on him. Also, she always claims that he calls her all the time and tells her that he's still in love with her and wants to be with her even though he divorced her, and that she shoots him down every time. I feel so sorry for her because she has to make up these stories in which she has all the power and control in order to feel better about herself.

Do any of you other ladies have to deal with anything like this? I feel like I'm doing the wrong thing by listening to her when she gets like that because I know I'm not really supposed to be talking to her at all, especially considering that the next day she'll probably just turn around and be psycho #*&$@ again. I just think it's so pitiful and sad that she has no friends and really is dying for someone to talk to and give her support, so much so that she'll seek it from me of all people.