My husband and I have been together for 5yrs now. We have a 4yr together and he has a 14yr and a 17yr. Every time his kids come around his whole attitude change and he doesn't see it. My biggest problem is with his 17yr old..........Nothing in our house is personal nor private, she calls and texts her mom all day regarding what were doing. Their mom talks negatively about me around the children and when they come to visit I'm dealt the attitude. My husband and I have been to counseling and I thought we made some progress, but apparently not. It's like living in a world wind.I am so tired and its causing a wedge between me and my husband. I've been here for him through all the hell and drama that he has going through regarding his stupid ex, but at some point I have to think about me. I hope I'm not a bad person for saying this,but I really do not like being around his children. And he is constantly questioning me why don't I love his kids. I keep trying to tell him that it is a relationship that I have to build and since they have been in my life it has been turmoil with them and their mom I'm feed up.