Update on SD’s sister’s last name
So for anyone following my story from the beginning know the situation about BM's older child who she passed off as being DH's for 3 years until he left her.
BM revealed today that she has not changed her older child's last name from my DH's because she didn't want to change her last name twice so instead, three years later supposedly BM and her DH are in the process of him adopting her. BM having no care that the judge ordered her three years ago to change it immediately from DH's, but not wanting to do the process several times thought it wasn't confusing and is totally acdeptable the child had my DH's last name still. Even though she also admitted today that the child thinks my DH kidnapped her as a child because of the fact that she was in DH's care primarily for 1.5 years after he left her because the child wasn't his biologically. So because she was with him when he had rights to her at the time, but because he knew she wasn't his at that time he knowingly kidnapped her, meanwhile BM left her in his care that whole time ....
Then BM tried to come back and say she doesn't speak badly about DH after she admitted that both the child and SD think DH kidnapped her. Anyways, I feel really bad for DH because it's just another thing BM spun about DH that wasn't true, but this time not only to the child he wanted to keep in his life, but also to his actual biological daughter too. So totally awesome. I also feel badly for the child because that whole situation is a wreck. Plus for BM's DH, while we know he is a total idiot and BM has been cheating on him, now he's adopting BM's child.
Let's just say the situation is an absolute disaster.
**EDIT: we also found out earlier in the day that they are moving May 27, but we haven't received any notification yet or anything. So in the earlier part of the day we actually did give BM a friendly reminder that she needs to notify both the court and us in writing at least 30 days prior to the move. BM said she understands and she will do it, but DH and I don't think she will and if she does it will be after she already lives there. After yesterday and everything else though we are just done with the whole situation except calling SD for a while and attending the meeting with the school in like 9 days.