So DH sent over the CO and other documents to SD's ENT specialists, pediatrician, and the school. DH requested not only any and all records they have for SD to be mailed and/or emailed with the direction that he would cover any and all costs for this as well as portal access if they have portals so DH can access all information digitally, separate portal login of course from BM. This way he can access any and all information on his own, without going through BM.
Guess what? BM did not upload any documentation last night like she stated she would. To further the documentation trail against BM if there ever is a need for it, DH sent one message today requesting all information we are waiting on from BM since she did not upload it last night as promised. BM then uploaded two documents, 1. The allergy test results from July testing dairy, meat, and seafood which we already got two weeks ago, 2. Another page of SD's visit in July that BM did not share before.
What is interesting about the documentation from July's visit, under the section that says "History of Present illness" it says:
-"SD is accompanied by her mother with concern for enlarged tonsils. She intermittently snores at night but has been having increased coughing with sleep and some drooling at night. Mom would like her to be tested for food allergies and referred to allergist due to significant family history of food allergies. SD currently has not had any allergic reaction to food or medicine so far. No throat infections, difficulty breathing or cyanosis noted."
Hmmm... so SD has not had a history of throat infections or as drastic symptoms as BM has been claiming she has been suffering from for 3 years.
DH only also messaged BM to point out the note about no throat infections in SD's health history
BM's response was that a pediatrician cannot diagnose throat issues and that she has to request SD's documentation from 2019 & 2020
1. Yes, a pediatrician can diagnose throat issues such as infections
2. You were supposed to be doing that since July, when it was requested you send the last 3 years over showing documentation of throat issues as BM has been claiming, but we never saw and during those years had SD every other week, etc.
Just was filling everyone in. Thank you for the information, advice and suggestions, it has been helpful. DH is putting an end to the power play of information and soon we should have the full picture of SD's visits, past history, results, etc. to either continue to back up DH's thought that tonsil removal surgery is not what SD needs right now or convince DH that SD does indeed need them removed.