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SD phone call

NotYourAverageStepMama's picture

SD just got off the phone with BM. Tried calling BM from SD's phone because you would think the purpose would be for the phone to work right? Well when you try to call BM, the phone says "Your phone call has been redirected to Verizon financial services. In order to complete this call a minimum payment must be made." .... So apparently BM hasn't paid the bill for SD's phone, but said before SD actually boarded the plane "We will load her phone Monday for texts." 

Anyway, SD called BM and then BM's husband got on to talk to SD too this is what he had to say:

-"Hey baby, how are you?"

-"Oh, that is so fun baby."

-"What have you done at camp?"

-"I love you so much babygirl"

.........................

That was literally the conversation and all except one sentence out of his mouth was calling SD baby or babygirl, it was sickening. SD has not asked once to play on her phone or even her tablet. Just is excited to play on her tablet when we allow her to. BM lets SD play roblox which is meant for ages 10+ and SD hasn't mentioned the game to us even once, but asked BM when she gets home if she can play Roblox. BM says "of course, you can play whatever you want when you get home." 

On a side note, SD had her first day of tutoring today and gave a packet of what SD worked on today and an assessment of where SD is at. Should we upload it to the CO app so it shows that 1. SD is actually going to tutoring, 2. Shows that even though BM doesn't share info, DH does, etc.?

 

EDIT: DH decided that he is going to upload all the assessments we get from tutoring. He wants to show that on his limited time he is capable of sharing information about SD and that he is doing as he said he was about sending her for tutoring

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notsurehowtodeal's picture

BM's DH continues to give me a creepy feeling...  I know there is not much you can do but keep really listening to SD. Did you figure anything else out about the "mosquito bites?"

NotYourAverageStepMama's picture

So SD had not mentioned anything about them to us and finally got to take her to the doctor on Friday, but by that time they weren't there anymore as it had been over a week already. So hopefully was just mosquito bites then! 

DH and I are watching a woody Allen documentary right now and that really showed with a young child, like you said to really listen to them and just ask questions when they say something alarming or not right.