CPS Request Paperwork Came in
I went out to check to mail today and honestly I wondered if CPS hasn't been called or if DH wasn't named the father in these reports since it has been more than a week and we still hadn't received anything in the mail from CPS to request the reports from BM's state. Well, I was wrong about that! We received five, yes FIVE request forms to fill out to request information. I literally am like shaking because BM has only lived in that state since June 2022 and already there were 5 reports against her to CPS.
Besides the concern that I definitely feel, DH is busy at work and doesn't know yet, I am torn on how we should fill out the forms. The reason I say this is because it requests you put the names and birth dates of child/children and under each child listed you have to put your relationship if parent/guardian/custodian or alleged perpetrator. Now we all know DH had his rights taken from SD's sister years ago now, but BM hasn't changed the last name of the child or her birth certificate. Do we lie and put both SD and her sister down or just SD? Clearly DH was named the father of either SD or SD's sister or both 5 times which is why we got 5 request forms. BUT DH doesn't have rights to SD's sister so definitely feels like fraud to put the sister down.
Totally understand why BM is pissed, she thinks we have called CPS on her 5 times and she doesn't want SD spending more time with us because she thinks SD tells us stuff on these long visits and then we call CPS. Well BM, we haven't called CPS on you in almost 2 years now and that was the one and only time we have ever called.