A bit of an update on SD's tonsils
So for those of you who read the blogs regarding SD and her tonsils, SD had a second opinion appointment today.
1. BM did not tell us SD had this appointment until we asked BM
2. BM gave us the date of the appointment, but no time or other information until BM was asked yesterday
3. BM took SD to the appointment and then did not share any information about the appointment until messaged 3 hours after the appointment when BM did not send any information
Then finally when BM "shared" information regarding the appointment, all she said was that she was not given any paperwork, that the doctor told her she would receive it via email and that the doctor gave the same recommendation. DH then asked for information on who SD saw and BM sends a picture of a business card with 6 other doctors names followed by her saying how she went above and beyond to get this second opinion from a specialist recommended "in hopes DH would consider their recommendation."
DH sends back "I am waiting on all paperwork from today's appointment first."
So who wants to take bets that BM does not actually follow up with the information from the doctor or she sends only a part of it? Either way, tomorrow morning DH is calling both specialists, as well as her pediatrician, and has already emailed SD's teacher (since BM has said that everyone else has witnessed these issues). Sorry BM your word does not count enough to make this decision and you are dumb if you think DH will agree easily when he has to pull teeth to get ANY information about SD medically. BM still has not provided any documentation showing this has been an issue prior to July 2021 either.
ALSO, unrelated, but DH DID get another job he starts this week and it is a MUCH better opportunity for growth and has better benefits than the last one so in reality it ended up way better for DH and our family what happened with his crazy boss.