SD12 making life hell
I got married to my wife (BM)with SD15, SD5 and SD4. I had to deal with the first SD15-18 and her bs of being rude, mean, ignoring and manipulating...BM did nothing to squelch her behavior. Thank goodness she went off to college. Now I have been dealing with the younger two playing mom against me and BM lets them. I end up always being the villian, defending myself. Most recently a little thing(aren't they always!) of just asking SD12 (was SD5) to pass me the remote for the tv. She ignored me at first, like she never heard me. Then when BM asked her if she heard me she said she did and gave me the "screw you" look and threw the remote at me. BM said SD12 had just started getting into that series and wanted to watch it. (defending her as always) I said, No biggie.. all she had to do was say so, not just sit there and ignore me until her BM intervened!!! This is getting sooooooo old!! I got mad and went to the basement to watch tv. BM told her to go down and say sorry.. When she did, she came down with her head down and mumbled a barely audible "sorry" I asked her why she kept ignoring me everytime I talked to her and all she did was shrug her shoulders. I told her that ignoring me is the same as telling me "Screw You!" She went upstairs and told her mom what I said and her mom defended her saying I was an adult and shouldnt talk to them that way. Why can't BM be a wife and a mother? Why does she have to either be a wife or a mother?