So sick of it!!
I have been married to my DH for a year now and am so frusterated that he Tells his SS 16 everything and lets him do anything. There are no boundaries. Probably because i feel like i need to be a people pleaser. I try my ass off but then just get disrespected. I have had to throw away some stuff (adult stuff)in our room cuz he looks through our room for lint removers, socks, or whatever. I dont want to call it white lies but he will kinda lie abt things like buying shoes and then throwing away the evidence. Recently he lied abt cutting up one of the expensive pillows and using the stuffing to make his new dog(at his moms house) a bed. And also told me to help him sew it! I wasnt gonna make a big deal and just ignore it but yesterday for whatever reason i told my DH and how he lies and to not tell him, but he did! I know because the evidence of whats left of the stupid pillow is gone! Right now i feel guilty for telling his dad, but also pissed that my husband would tell his son when i told him not to. Im so frustereated cuz now its gonna be awkward when his son and i are alone together. I also hate it when he does these things and tells me, but then tells me not to tell his dad. I hate being in this situation