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College and our children being treated unequally

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So here is my latest frusteration.  I feel like my husband is treating his child better than mine.  When my own biological child turned 18 he wanted them off of our car insurance and be off on their own.  Now HIS biological son whos 17 and going to be 18 needs a cosigner for his college loan and he is gonna sign for him if their grandma doesnt cosign!  Now am I also liable if something happens?  Am i not supposed to be upset abt this? I am so sick of him treating his son better and when i want to do something for MY kids he says they are old enough! Im tired of staying quiet abt it.

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Dealing with a Narcissist Ex

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So here is my latest issue.  My exhusband is wanting to take my 14 yr old daughter to Mexico and I just have a bad feeling about all this. He already bought tickets and is telling me what hes doing and this trip is in January!   This is just what he does.  He will plan things and tell me hes doing expecting me to be ok with it.  He is pushing me to sign and approve for her to get a passport.  I definitely do not trust him.

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Husband making me feel crazy

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So this is the 3rd day since our fight on Friday.  Sat I worked until 2 and he said he was gonna take a nap when I was abt to get home because he was tired.  He layed in bed and came down to the kitchen to eat once since I got off of work at 2 and went back upstairs to bed.  He does this a lot when we fight.  Sunday he finally gets up at 9am and goes to work with me at the spa.  Awkward drive together there.  After work day is done and driving back home I confront him abt our arguement ( Friday I asked him if when his son turns 18 is he gonna be on his own policy like he made MY child.  He

Sulking husband upstairs in bed

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My husband and I got into a really big argument last night and now he is hardly talking to me and avoiding me.  When his son is home he gets out of bed and hangs out with him.  They act like best friends and twins saying the same things, making fun of people , and its actually getting annoying now.  Sometimes I feel like he just needs his son as a buffer or something.  Its a very weird situation.  When we fight nothing ever gets resolved and he just acts like this...We have been married for almost 2yrs this July.  I feel like I bend over backwards for his son and he doesn't even try with my

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So frusterated im abt ready to run away!

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So i have a SS who is gonna be 17 soon and him and his dad my husband acts the same ands says the same things! Either my husband is trying to act like him or SS is trying to act like his dad.  Anyways, our sex life has pretty much deminished... we have only been married for a little over a year and there are some annoying things that i just try to ignore, but turned into anger and resentment.  

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Does this happen to anyone else??

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So i have noticed that my SS(16) seems to ask me to do somethiing for him or get something for him everytime he sees my face!  Examples: can you look for this blanket when you go to the store? Can you get this logo off my shorts (it says surf CA).  Can you get me a soda? Can you sew this? Do you have a blackhead remover? Sometimes im wondering... why is this kid asking me for things all the time when MY kids never ask my DH for anything!!  Im starting to really disengage and im feeling annoyed where i just dont want to be around him anymore!

So sick of it!!

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I have been married to my DH for a year now and am so frusterated that he Tells his SS 16 everything and lets him do anything.  There are no boundaries.  Probably because i feel like i need to be a people pleaser.  I try my ass off but then just get disrespected.  I have had to throw away some stuff (adult stuff)in our room cuz he looks through our room for lint removers, socks, or whatever.  I dont want to call it white lies but he will kinda lie abt things like buying shoes and then throwing away the evidence.

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Why does husband treats Bio kids different

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I am so frusterated that my DH of year has changed and treats his BS better than my kids and he just doesnt try anymore.  He likes validation too lately... example: i stayed up till 11 to fold the laundry..when I do 4 loads i say nothing. Doesn't the laundry room look nice! I was on my knees for 4 days doing the tile(even though he had help from his brothers).  Then i say looks awesome! Or thanks for folding the laundry! You do so much for us!!

So annoyed right now!!

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Im so annoyed right now.. my SS(16)likes to ignore me.  For instance i asked him what he wanted for dinner and he ignores me.  So i just walk away.  He has the nerve to to subtle things like how do i make my pant legs smaller... (his dad prob told him to ask me to sew it) they think im stupid and j will just do it.  Nahhhh... not anymore people.  I told him why would you want the bottom of your pant leg that skinny? You can use a saftey pin like we did back in the 90s... he storms outta here cuz he cant get what he wants... ugh whatever

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