You are right, just keep a journal of this so you can see just how short his memory is when it comes to SD.

And Grandma? She was worse than DH if I remember correctly.

More likely about 2 1/2  months, around the first of December..

Bidding for her...

my sd's are 24.5 and 14.5, my husband divorced their mum 11.5 years ago and bio mum remarried days after divorce was finalized and it turns out even before hubby initiated separation, she was cheating on hubby with this man well before it...

she bragged how great she was and hubby was an ugly old man that nobody wanted.... except 4 yrs after the divorce she found out he was dating a younger hottie whom she called the half naked christian caucasian whore to hubbys sister and any of her friends at hubbys workplace... didn't matter she was a cheater...

right after divorce hubby was rapidly promoted and his salary increased 10 fold... 90% of his retirement savings were earned post divorce and when sd's ended contact with hubby for 5.5 yrs.

we had 2 kids when they decided to reconnect... bio mum expected if she pas'ed the daughters out hubby would drop everything for them and hubby was tired of the manipulation and eventually felt life goes on. They have chosen to believe bio mums nonsense about hubby. 
 

turns out hubby marries me, we have 2 kids and we continue with life... bio mum realized the useless girls she raised who will never launch, are polar opposites to the 2 kids i have with hubby including her useless son (now 22) of my husband...

she panicked and had daughters reconnect with hubby who non stop ranted how bio mum was good now and just forget all the crap she pulled. 5.5 yrs of  no contact and ulterior motive was money. Eldest sd who was 22.5 at the time lectures hubby on his child support responsibility to her to continue indefinitely and to lecture hubby further that he needs to gift a home to them that is in bio mums name.

home was purchased post divorce solely by hubby but bio mum reckons its in her name (despite not signing any documents to purchase the property), story has now changed to hubby owes her this home, he promised her a home

i reminded hubby skids are now 24.5, 22 and 14.5. He is only responsible for cs to the youngest 14.5 yr old and our 2 kids aged 3 & 4.5. I reminded hubby that financially he needs to ensure our kids are provided for right through high school not 2 failure to launch adults...

every year at least twice the eldest sd would ask hubby about this home and if it was transferred to them solely yet... just 3 skids should have home gifted.

i told hubby if he had more responsibility to ensure our 2 were provided for before gifting properties and assets and I wasn't going to remain in a marriage where hubby expected i fight with psycho exwife and 3 skids working hard to disinherit us... skids who repeatedly resent us for existing and tell hubby we are not family..

so late last yr hubby purchased a home for us in my birth country where our kids go to school and magically eldest sd is available for lunch when she found out hubby was withdrawing a large chunk of retirement savings... funny she wasn't available since a year prior for daddy who is like 5 mins walk from her office for lunch...

During that meet hubby told her off that her and her sister's behavior and treatment of and towards me and our 2 kids was unacceptable and her repeated rants of bullshit about bio mum and stepdad... hubby reminded her i was his wife, not her, not the exwife and that i had authority regarding how our kids are parented and sd's were never to  answer me back.. 

i was fedup of sd's acting as miniwives and thinking they got to control me too.. eff no... after that its been 9 months no contact.

hubby has realised our kids love him unconditionally as their dad with no strings attached. With my skids it's temporary crumbs of attention dependent on hubby sending money to them, favours hubby does for them. I tired of these 2 useless failure to launch adults still living off hubby. 
 

i have just applied to my old workplace as they are hiring whilst i am studying university fulltime and caring for 2 young kids on my own the past 6 months since my husband is stuck overseas because of covid border closures.

the fact these idiot adult skids are still living off hubby is insane. Hubby claims job market is bad over there, well it is around the world but beggars can't be choosers. Adult skids want massive salaries for minimal work, they do not want to do hard work and work several jobs to make ends meet. 

i reminded hubby there are no excuses and if he thought his excuses for adult skids were acceptable, he is mistaken

my husband recently had the selective memory loss about skids again claiming they love us and we are family. Till i sent a screenshot of a message from hubby several months ago how they despise and resent us for existing because they know hubby loves us more. No comment from hubby at that point except if that is what he typed then he cannot deny it...

we are guilted and the scapegoat for the issues of skid behaviour but skids dont see that hubby loves us more because we are pleasant and make time for him. They don't but expect hubby loves them.

skids know hubby has made me sole beneficiary of his retirement fund... Hubby figured if he died, our kids would bw the only minors who have not benefited financially as much as skids and he needed to ensure the basics were provided for. 
 

Skids do not know this but they each have a savings fund for them with a hefty amount. Even if hubby died tomorrow, sd14.5 will have enough money there till she finishes high school in a few years and to go to university, there isn't anything more they deserve when they haven't earned it... the manipulation never ends with them..