Having a golden uterus moment
My son is going from Uni to his Dads parents for a visit before coming home for the summer.
My son, his Dad and grandfather all have birthdays in the begining of May, so they are celebrating together. ExH is meeting BS there.
BS will be there for Mothers Day as well.
I'm missing him already and very sad that I won't see him on Mothers Day or his birthday. This is the first time ever that he's been gone for Mothers Day or his birthday.
I know he's an adult and I'm happy that he's going to spend time with his Grandfather, who has Alzheimers and is getting worse but I'm still having a little pity party over here.
I miss him terribly and will be that Mother who calls him and tells him how much I love and miss him, on both days!
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Thanks Yes, I'll spend
Thanks
Yes, I'll spend Mothers Day with my Mom and MIL. As for his Bday, I'm not sure but I'll find something to do.
No it only counts as a GU
No it only counts as a GU moment if you call him up and forbid him to go see his dad and grandparents. And then try to guilt him to death for his decision. And then call your ex and call him lots of horrible names.
No, I would never make him
No, I would never make him feel guilty. He knows I miss him, but he also knows I support this decision. His grandfather is getting worse and might not even know him in a month or two.
I'm glad he's there to celebrate with his Dad but I'm still having a little pity party for me.
Be proud of him, Mom. I'm
Be proud of him, Mom.
I'm sure he'll be missing you too on the special days he's always spent with you. This may be the last birthday GPa is here or remembers.
Ok so maybe not a GU moment
Ok so maybe not a GU moment but I definitely get how BMs feel when the kids aren't with them on special days and they want the kids to know how much they are missed and loved.
My son knows that, very much so but I'm feeling sad and wish he was home.