"You are no fun"
:? Im a 29 year old stepmother. I've been with my husband for 4 years. He has 2 kids from a previous marriage. Girl ML age 8 and boy DL age 6. ML now stays with her mother. DL stays with us. And we also now have a 11 month old girl. Wich DL loves to bits.
The problem is my husband (JL) doesn't really "notice" anything DL does. So if I talk about stuff he'll jyst tell the kids "she's no fun" If I complaint about DL hanging from the cars window the im "no fun"
And no DL would tell me to my face "your no fun" and my husband just says "I didn't notice" so he cant punish him.
I think he is scared if he fights with DL he wants to go live by his mother aswell.
What should I do?? Must I start to "not notice" and concentrate on my little one only??