Another low for SS, DH's head in the sand
I gave DH two birthday celebrations. One was yesterday since that was his actual birthday. I made his favorite dinner and his favorite cake. I also prepared a nice dinner and a cake today too because the skids weren't here for his actual birthday. I prepared the type of dinner and cake that the skids would want if it was their birthday.
Knowing that we were celebrating his dad's birthday and that we were having food that he really likes, SS13 on his way over to our house for the family celebration, decided to go find some friends and have dinner with them. And DH wonders why I can't stand his son. DH even goes to lengths to be super nice to him the rest of the night when he eventually comes home.
And, DH got pissy at me for taking his sister and not him to the dollar store when I needed one item for a halloween costume. Umm....really DH....SD17 is not talking to him right now because he did a super sh*tty thing to her a week ago, she knows exactly what she wants at the store, and she has money. She had dinner and cake with us and I enjoy her company, so why should I subject her to him too. Plus, even though you are over it, I'm still pissed he didn't celebrate your birthday. Add to that, I don't want to deal with figuring out whether he has money, knowing that he has no clue what he wants, and just wants to go waste my time and spend money carelessly.
DH then immediately told SS that he would be taking him to the dollar store tomorrow and asked him what he needed. SS, in usually fashion, told him he had no clue.